Why don’t team members speak up

Are you concerned that team members do not speak up during discussions?

As individuals, they are bright, forthcoming and have plenty to contribute.  At the coffee machine, discussion is animated and flows swiftly.  Yet, when you all troop into a meeting, the flow of dialogue immediately dries up and energy evaporates.

Then, as soon as the individuals get out of the door, they are reanimated and have plenty to say.  Why has lethargy supplanted vitality?  Here are four possible reasons:

  • the boss
  • perception of the expertise of others
  • lack of confidence
  • premature conformity.

1.  The boss

It feels natural for the boss to maintain their role of boss in a meeting – they call the meeting, chair it, sit in a prominent position, make decisions.

But, a boss-centric meeting encourages team members to think: “If you are the boss, then you must know all the answers.  Or, you think you do.  The easiest and safest thing is for me to keep quiet.  You decide, I will follow.”

The boss gets no feedback so cannot update their perception of the world.  Discussion is limited and no new ideas are floated.

This is a self-reinforcing situation, but you can break into the circle.

First, ensure that everyone understands what the meeting and each agenda item is aiming to achieve.  Second, have different people introduce and lead individual agenda items.  Third, instil an understanding that everyone is responsible for the success of the meeting – you can do this by going round the table to seek contributions.  .

And fourth, find an opportunity to give your boss some feedback.

2.  Perception of the expertise of others

The position of the expert, or the more experienced person, is a variation of the boss situation.

If people perceive one of the group to be an expert, they tend not to question that person’s expertise.  This means the expert gets a clear run and their assertions go unchallenged.

Of course there is a role for people’s expertise and experience – we want to know what they think.  But their contributions need to be evaluated as to their practicality, how they can effectively be applied, the same as any other idea.

An expert may be an expert in a narrow field and be less capable of seeing how their expertise will work in practice – this is where the other team members come in.

If contributions are rated by the experience of the contributor then it could be like driving a car by looking in the rear view mirror.  The same problems recur and basic issues are not resolved.  Again, discussion is limited and no new ideas are floated.

To overcome this, encourage the belief that everyone has something to contribute.  Second, evaluate ideas on merit.  Third, challenge defensive behaviour such as “We already tried that and didn’t work.”

3.  Lack of confidence

Newer members of a team are prepared to join vigorously in the dialogue over coffee but often less willing to contribute in front of the whole team.

But, when do new team members feel comfortable about contributing to a more formal meeting – after one week, one month, one year?  If they are not immediately encouraged to speak up, this sends out signals.  Signals such as:  new ideas are not welcome; contributions are evaluated on status, length of service and number of scars.

However, since the old hands have been around for longer, they are more likely to see issues in the same way as they always have done.

One way to manage this is actively to seek out the contribution of newcomers: “Is this something you experienced at your previous job?”  Another tactic is to support those who struggle to make an impact, give them airtime.

4.  Premature conformity

When the team makes a decision, we would like all the team members to agree to that decision.  Successful follow through of actions is increased if everyone is committed.

However, if the group enforces unanimity too early in a discussion, individuals will limit their feedback and withhold different ideas.  People will be more concerned with conformity than with digging into issues.  Not only will they keep quiet during discussion, but they will also have limited commitment afterwards.

As a result, criticism takes place after the decision has been made, rather than before.  The Bay of Pigs may have taken place over fifty years ago, but it still stands as one of the most famous examples of group think.

To avoid group think, make it clear at each stage of discussion what contributions are welcome:   creative ideas, evaluation or execution.

 

So, if you want your meetings to be dynamic and people to commit to the outcomes, you have to encourage a culture in which everybody’s contribution is welcomed and the issues are aired openly around the table.

Half baked

Make your meetings more effective

You may be interested in applying this analytical structure to your meetings.

In return for gaining enormous benefit from reading my comments, would you create a fancy title to describe this approach? If you do, I promise you an attribution which is likely to enhance your career.

It would be nice if it was a snappy acronym (sorry – for those who came through the English education system, an acronym is a word formed from the initial letters of other words, like radar or ANZAC.) For example: meetings are ludicrous (MAL). Or something snappy like: basic improvement of meeting behaviour and organisational effectiveness (BIMBOE).

That idea is half baked

You are in a team meeting and your boss asks for ideas to solve a problem. One person comes up with a suggestion.

Now, the team has only just been asked and have not thought it through, but one person bravely volunteers an idea. They probably cannot articulate how it would work practically, so they can’t provide much in the way of details. As a consequence, the team has difficulty in seeing how it would solve the problem they are discussing. Therefore, everyone makes it clear what they feel about this half-baked idea and also what they feel about the person who raised it.

But – aren’t most ideas half-baked the first time they see the light of day?

Message “Don’t come up with ideas that have not been properly thought through.”

Result Everyone is nervous about putting forward ideas. Not only because their idea will be criticised but also because they themselves will be attacked. As a consequence, creativity is devalued and idea generation shrivels. Action is confined to what we have tried before or what the boss wants. People’s development is stunted and the group fails to see or to grasp opportunities. Work becomes a less dynamic and fun occupation.

Suggestion Encourage suggestions, get ideas articulated, allow time for everyone to hear them. Then explore how they might work before determining what the shortcomings might be. A half-baked idea from one person can be developed into a possible avenue by another and then a certainty by a third – this is a key function of a team.

After all, what do you do with a potato that is half baked? Do you throw it away and fetch a new potato from the sack and start again? Or do you put the original potato back in the oven for a bit longer?

A further suggestion. Be aware of those who repeatedly interrupt or dismiss ideas. Stop them picking on weaknesses and stifling the creativity of others. Save criticism for idea evaluation.